Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Courting Customs in America

Courting on the American Frontier

Country courting was different that city courting. For example, a young suitor who really admired a young lady might send her a note with friend called a "compliment". The note might had said something such as:


"Dear, Miss Kirkland (using myself as a example),
May I have the desirable pleasure of your countenance on this forthcoming Sunday afternoon?"
Truly yours, Marc Hall (using my boyfriends name as a example)"


The suitor would put the note in a decorated envelope and have a friend deliver it. The friend then had to wait for the day's response and deliver the response back. If the response was favorable, the young suitor would ask her to ride with him on his horse and carriage, (Question: How do you ride
on a horse and carriage?) with proper chaperoning,of course. Often, she said no because she did not have proper attire for the evening.

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If you wed when March winds blow, joy and sorrow both you'll know

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