Saturday, November 27, 2010

Courting Customs in America

~~~~~ Cupid's Swift Arrow ~~~~~

No book on "Courtship Customs in America" would be complete without a celebration of the most romantic holiday of the year ~ Valentine's Day

Originally, the word Valentine meant the person whose name was picked from a box to be chosen as your sweetheart up until the 1500's. Then around the year 1533, it meant the folded piece of paper with the sweethearts name on it. By 1610, it then became the gift given to this special someone and by 1824 it then became a poem, letter or verse to a sweetheart

Valentine's Day is celebrated on February 14 every year. It originally was celebrated in February in ancient Roman times.

~~~~~~~~~~ Valentine Day Cards ~~~~~~~~~~

The custom of exchanging love notes goes back to the ancient Roman times. It was the British, however, who popularized sending one's feelings to another by the means of a printed card. The first Valentine card appeared in 1415. Commercial Valentines first appeared in 1800 in England.

In America, hand-made Valentines appeared around 1740 and were sealed with red wax and left secretly on a lovers doorstep (or sent in the mail). Commercial cards took over around the 1880's but, people still made homemade ones, including ones with trinkets and some with locks of hair. In some cases there were checks written against "The Bank of Love".

When Valentine cards got to America, they became very creative in nature. The first known Valentine to come to the United States was a note written by John Winthrop in 1629 to his wife before leaving England for the New World.

The Valentine ended with "My sweet wife, thou must be my valentine for none other hath challenged my heart."

John Winthrop later became the governor of the Massachusetts Bay Colony.

~~~~~~~~~~ Quotes ~~~~~~~~~~

"A kiss is something you cannot give without taking and cannot take without giving" ~ Traditional Valentine greeting, circa 1876

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

New Mexico

Thursday (October 14.): Well, it started out as me getting up at 3:30am. We Got to the Dothan airport at 5:00. We only live 5 minutes away so, we were able to get there at 5:00. We got on the airplane at 5:30 .... we taxied down the Runway and stopped ..... it was a 30 minute wait .....The captain finally came on the PA and said: "Ladies and Gentlemen, there is a delayed take off. The tower is not open and we had to call someone to come open it and turn on the runway lights."!!!!! I was like: Who in the heck heard of a airport shutdown at 5:30 in the morning?????

Anyway we finally took off (for Atlanta) and I forget what time we got to Atlanta but, we had a 2 hour layover (I think). We got to Albuquerque, New Mexico around lunch and we had a 4 (actually 3 1/2) hour drive up the mountain and we got to our condo at 5:30

After we got there, we had a few hours to change and get ready to go out to eat with the McAfee Family!! I had a blast eating with them!! The second I met them, I had a instant connection with that whole family!!

Friday (October 15): Will and Amy got together and went to a resort town (Taos) down the mountain and got the marriage liscense and while there, they ate breakfast. Dad, Mom and I went sight seeing and we to see someones ranch. We know the person that owns it and he said it was ok so, we went.

Friday night~ Rehearsal Dinner: We heard that the actor Sean Penn was filming a movie near where we were staying (at the condo) but, we had no idea that he was filming on the part of the mountain where the rehearsal and the wedding was to take place!!

We went to the rehearsal. I stood in as "Amy as "bride". I am her height and same age (well, I am older than her by 3 months) bt, anyway ..... Pictures will follow as soon as I get around to posting them. We took the wedding party out to eat at a restaurant called "Sundance Mexican Restaurant" It was very good.

Saturday ~ Day of the wedding (October 16): What a glorious day it was!!!!!!!!!! A day filled with family, friends and memories!!!!! Amy was gorgeous as always and God's presence was felt everywhere!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday (October 17) ~ Day to arrive home: It was an eventful day!!!!!

Thursday, October 14, 2010